You know the story about Circe. She turned Odysseus's men into pigs and wouldn't turn them back until he agreed to sleep with her.
Yes, it's friend's only, but not because I'm self-righteous and think I have something to say that only very important people get to read. I just say a lot of potentially incriminating stuff. I'm incredibly liberal with my friend's list, so beg for acceptance and be cool like everyone else.